If you are in a relationship where tears are your best friend, why are you still there. My father you to say if it is the d...k you want, they come a dime a dozen and you can find it anywhere. Stop allowing the issues of others to control and dictate your happiness. Stop allowing a man to define your very existence. You will make it without him and someone else will come along and appreciate you, but honey if you do not love yourself, nobody else will.
There are some women that if they do not have a man in their lives, they completely shut down and go into a depression. How did they ever function in their life without that other person? You have to get your self together and learn how to function as an individual, then you can join hands with someone else and enjoy life with that person. A person cannot complete an incomplete person. If you are lacking happiness in your life and you meet someone that makes you are happy, are you non existent and unhappy if they leave?
We have all experienced love and we know that breakups hurt and they can be devastating, but to give up on yourself and on your existence is horrible. Now we know couples that have grown old together and when one passes the other one normally follows not to long after, but these are people that have spent their lives together, not a three month or two year relationship, where if you breakup with this person you truly believe life to be over. Stop the Madness! You will get through this, really, you will be okay.
Love pulls at our heart strings, but do not stay in a relationship because you do not think you can do better, do not stay in a relationship because you feel life will be miserable alone. You can be happy getting to know yourself better, your likes, dislikes and desires. Do not allow a man to measure your worth, only you and God have the scale for that mathematics.
Love you and continue to love you always.
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