Monday, April 22, 2013

TRUE LOVE EXISTS

One question many people have is about the existence of Love, and one of the saddest things in this world is to know that some people have never ever experienced true love.

I can honestly share the feeling of true love.

True Love is when you just mesh completely with someone, it is where their faults do not really matter because their heart outweighs any imperfections they may have. It's when that person walks into the room and your heart just skips a beat, it's when you smile they smile, it's when you laugh and they laugh, it's when you act silly around them and you just feel joy. Even when you are truly upset with them, you are not really mad, but rather just pretending.

Some people do go overboard with their love commitment; but love truly does make you do strange things. Love can make write a poem, sing a song, dance like you are on the moon and even bake a cake from scratch when Duncan Hines has been your best friend for years. Love makes you want to think about running that red light to get home, or buying the sexiest lingerie to show off how sexy you can be. Love can make you act as a patient and your man as a doctor, love can make you dance on a pole to display your flexibility and to tantalize the man you oh so desire.

Do not block your heart from experiencing love for it is truly a blessing to find someone that you can share your heart with. So many young people today mistake sex for love and they jump according to their passions rather than letting love take its time to find them.

I strongly believe that love is out there for everyone, but there is only one true love and everything else is practicing until you find the one that truly makes your heart skip a beat;  and someone that loves you for you and respects you for what you bring to the table.

So many times we settle for the immediate gratificatiion that we do not look at the big picture. Look at how high the divorce rates are, people either just married the wrong person or they never took the time to know the person they were marrying. Sometimes your goals change and you want more out of life, and your growth potential can harm the relationship. The majority of relationships fail because of finances, either one partner (usually the female) begins making more than the spouse and he in turn feels inferior and like less of a man, and some women do emphasize how they are bringing more to the table. On the other hand some women look upon the man differently when he is making less or not enough. SOMETIMES ENOUGH MONEY DOESNT EXIST AND FRUSTRATION SATURATES THE RELATIONSHIP.

You remember hearing that love cannot pay the rent, well that is oh so true; nor can it put food on the table. You know to be honest when someone is not doing their part in a relationship it begins to get old and the other person can begin despising the other, and the door to wrong doings can unlock. Just make sure to take the time to know the person's last name, likes, desires and long term goals before you make them your spouse, lover or child's father, it can save you a great deal of heartache. Do not allow yourself to confuse passion for love, you can have both if you take the time to know the difference. True love does exist, it may not come when you call, but it can show up uninvited.

TRUE LOVE EXISTS FOR US ALL.

LOVE COMES FROM GOD

WE MUST LEARN TO SPREAD LOVE THROUGHOUT OUR WORLD, TAKE TIME TO LOVE AND ENJOY YOURSELF!

I'M GONNA MISS YOU